Fetishism and sexual role plays do not belong to the socially
accepted varieties of sexuality and are often considered to be
perverted or abnormal. The prevailing perspective on this topic is
predominatntly shaped by physical violence, rubber and leather.
The true bandwidth of fetishes is unequally wider and varies from
human horses and masochists, latex-brides and human puppies
to slaves and real-life-rubberdolls. Behind many of the often
dangerous or potentially harming practices is the desire to satisfy
basic human needs such as closeness, security or confidence. Due
to the lacking acceptance, many fetishist still feel forced to
supress their needs, what often places themselves into social
isolation.
On the other hand, the pornification or sexualization of society
changes the perception of privacy and intimacy as well as
sexuality itself. The capacity and availability of the internet
simplyfies the exchange of people who share the same sexual
preferences or paraphilia. Thus, many fetishists gain a new self-
conception. In general, sexual niches seem to become presentable
and still, sexual fetishism remains an unknown or unwanted part
of social life, although books like “Shades of Grey” top the world´s
bestseller lists and fetishist elements are to be found in many
shapes and colors throughout pop culture.